'Kiss boys two times after I have gone' 'Please teach the boys to say what they
mean' 'Mummy loved orange Club biscuits, jam and jelly and lemon curd' On her d
eathbed, Kate Greene's only concern was for her two little boys, Reef and Finn,
and her loving husband, Singe. She knew she'd be leaving them behind very soon.
Over her last few days, Kate created Mum's List. The couple talked and cried tog
ether as she wrote her thoughts and wishes down, trying to help the man she love
d create the best life for their boys after she was gone. It wasn't the first ti
me Singe and Kate had faced the spectre of death. Four years earlier, doctors di
scovered a large lump in baby Reef 's abdomen. Kate, pregnant with Finn, was so
distressed that she gave birth dangerously early. Both boys pulled through, but
afterwards Kate received the diagnosis that every woman dreads . . .
